Quote of the day


The end of a chapter

The end of a chapter only marks the beginning of a new one! It’s not over yet!

This is so true, the book, the growth, the learning, the excitement and the suspense can always continue.

Never leave a page unturned if you get bored or tired rest bookmark it and come back to it or simply start a new book.

Obviously I am not talking about books I am talking about the book of life!

Always start a new chapter always keep going, challenge yourself never give up.

Scorpion by Drake is here!!

Yes my husband has been mad busy and the wait was worth it!

So many hits and bangers on this album.

You can truly hear and see Drakes growth. So loving this album and it is of course my weekend Album recommendation.

I love the way he addresses the gossip about his secret child! About why he chose not to make a response diss track!

Right what are my favourites: I love jaded, nice for what, survival, Sandra’s rose, 8 out of 10, elevate, gods plan, mob ties and peak to name a few!

Check the album out and my playlists on Spotify! Remember to add me too!



Me Natural Love


You don’t have to understand me

Do you ever wake up in a reflexive mood?

This morning I’m awake and I am lying in bed just thinking!

I am desperate to make things happen with various projects after years of procrastinating and boy it is not easy.

The older you get the more responsibility you have the more difficult the new journey/path is.

I have my jewellery, photography, my YouTube, blogging, website and various other things I am working on all whilst being a mother working and finishing my degree.

My degree is a business degree which hopefully will help me with my passions and if not it will help me get more money out of the matrix.

I just can’t help but think there is more to life sometimes more than the matrix. I watch people all the time people watching is my thing and majority of the people I see are miserable or walk around with some chip on their shoulders, some burden on their shoulders. Just plodding along but not genuinely happy. No one smiles at people, say hello, greet strangers. No one has time for anyone anymore.

Why do so many people have dreams instead of goals? Why?

This upsets me because in order to do something or live out your “dream” you must first speak it into existence, you must make a plan you must take action! Set a goal and go for it. Too many people have shudda couldda wouldda’s!!

This is not only with your job this is a rule everybody should live by. I have made choices in my life and I have thrown out the rule book.

One thing I always say is never live your life through others, pay no attention to what others think or may say. You only have one life you could die right now! Die knowing you lived your best life! Die without regrets, die knowing you tried.

Too many people worry about failure! Most of the richest, the happiest, the most successful people did not get where they are by sitting on their arse! By not taking risks! By not trying.

Throw out the rule book of life try something new today! Change your “dreams” and set them as “goals!”.

I have a different way of looking at and living my life after being in a toxic relationship for years I realised there is so much more to life! Never stop until you get what you want! Remember you are worth the very best in life and go and get it! Go find what makes you happy and run with it!

Many people do not understand me but this is exactly what I mean. I honestly do not care and I will never worry about what people think! Your opinions, your thoughts and your negativity will never hinder my progress or phase me! I will never allow others to tell me how to live my life! I will never allow others to crash my journey because this is my life and I only have one! I live unapologetically!

I plan to live the best life that I can! I plan to be happy! I plan to be free!

Stay Fabulous x

ASOS uses real women

I am totally overcome with joy and happiness when looking at the recent ASOS collection. The thing that has me totally gassed is not the hot new summer looks but the gorgeous women totally owning their stripes, standing proudly in their outfits baring all for the world to see.

Why is this making the news? Why are we shocked happy or even interested?

Why is it that we today look at women on clothing websites, catalogues, images and magazines and we do not see “real women!” As opposed to photoshopped air brushed women?

I think that ASOS needs credit where credit is due! Good on you this type of imagery could help not just sell clothing but it could help with body image issues, depression, illnesses. Do you think I am a little over the top? Listen we live in a world today where airbrushing & photoshop is standard practice but how is this real life.

I am a mum of three and believe me I am donning some serious tiger stripes and constantly trying to get my muffin top under control!

So why am I made to feel alone, embarrassed or that clothing will not look right or is not made for me? I am a “real women” After all! Right?

Children, young adults need to see that this is real life! Real people and the more I see women and people of different sizes, colour and body types! The more I see “real women” is the more I can believe we are getting somewhere in this world!

ASOS always use women that represents the variety of women in our world and I commend them for that.

Well done ASOS